My Needs as a Submissive Male

 Figuring out my needs is a challenge. I do not feel comfortable asking for my needs to be met. Also, I struggle with differentiating between my needs and my wants. Below is a a list of my needs.

- Speak with Mistress daily

- Be of service to Mistress. I get satisfaction from being of service. Helping Mistress grow professionally and personally is important to me feeling useful to Mistress. I need to feel and know that I am helping Mistress.

- Approval from Mistress. I need Mistress to tell me when I have done something well. An action she approves of. 

- Financial security. I have not done a good job with my financial security. I need to increase my financial security to reduce stress. Improving my financial security will allow me to fulfill my wants.

- Housing. A place to call my own is important for my growth as a person. 

- Need for personal growth. I need Mistress to challenge me to improve 

    - Cooking. Mistress tells me to cook certain meals for her

   - Writing. Slave desires to be a better writer. 

   - Physical fitness. Being fit is good for my health. Mistress deserves a fit submissive

   - Dating. This one feels tricky. Slave seeks to gain experience with dating. This will allow him to be a good companion to Mistress.